Frank
In Memory of
Frank "Jay"
Patock
2018
Memorial Candle Tribute From
Damiano Funeral Home
"We are honored to provide this Book of Memories to the family."
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Memorial Candle Tribute From
Marissa Fischer
"The Lord sent a message to me when I met you and Carol to appreciate the true me"
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Bob and Elaine Palombo
"I have known Jay for fifty years with starting with the RED Bank YMCA, Patock Co"
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Donna M. Blaze
"My sincerest condolences to all of Jay's family. Jay shared his compassionate n"
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Condolence From: Craig Ryan
Condolence: My sincere condolences to the Patock family. Jay was a great man. My father was a long time friend of Jay. I had the privilege of working for him in the early 90's. I know he & my father are up in heaven playing a round of golf.
Saturday December 22, 2018
Condolence From: Lori Paone
Condolence: My thoughts and prayers are being said for you and your family.
I always enjoyed our conversations and our debates.
You were a wonderful man and deserve a great place in Heaven .

May God Bless YOU!!
Tuesday November 06, 2018
Condolence From: Clem Sommers
Condolence: Jay ... a good man, husband, father and friend ... He has left his mark upon this earth and will be missed by many ... Carol, please gain strength remembering those many, many years you were together ... those recollections are priceless ... And to Jay, I say: Rest Well ... you've earned it.
Monday November 05, 2018
Condolence From: Anna Diaz-White
Condolence: Dear Carol and the entire Patock family, friends, colleagues and co-workers; Jay was a Board of Trustee member at 180 Turning Lives Around, Inc. for about 10 years and a volunteer for our charity before and afterwards for many years. Jay was instrumental in helping us to achieve our dream of building a new shelter for victims of domestic violence, we truly couldn't have done it without him. He gave selflessly, quietly and generously of his time, talents and resources. He was always a gentleman, and someone who could get to the heart of an issue quickly and directly. He will forever be missed by me personally and by all of us at our organization. We thank you, his family, for supporting him so that he could do great things in the community, and we give you our deepest condolences. Jay, I hope there's some great golfing in heaven!
Monday November 05, 2018
Condolence From: Richard C. Terry
Condolence: Jay was a great boss and a better friend for over 20 years. My condolences to Carol and the family. May Jay finally rest in peace.
Monday November 05, 2018
Condolence From: Richard Pollock
Condolence: Jay Patock

Simple needs
Intelligent mind
Generous deeds
Humble and kind

Always there
For family and friend
Never needy
Until the end

While building so much good on earth
He built his home in heaven

Mary Jo Pollock 11/5/2018
Monday November 05, 2018
Condolence From: Peter Genovese
Condolence: The Lord today received a great man Thank you Jay for being the best example of service over self
Saturday November 03, 2018
Condolence From: Linda Brown
Condolence: Godspeed, Jay. I only knew Jay and Carol from RBC reunions but I know Lenny thought a lot of Jay.
My sympathies and thoughts are with your family.
Linda Brown (Mrs. F. Leonard Brown)
Friday November 02, 2018
Condolence From: DICK KLEVA
Condolence: grave and weep
I am not there, I do not sleep
I am a thousand winds that blow.
I am the diamond glints on snow.
I am the sunlight on ripened grain.
I am the gentle autumn rain.
When you awaken in the morning's hush.
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the soft stars that shine at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry;
I am not there, I did not die
Until we meet again.
Thursday November 01, 2018
Condolence From: Larry Fuchs
Condolence: Dear Carol, Family and Friends
Jay was bigger than life, with strength of character and handshake unmatched by anyone I know. My experiences with Jay over the last 48 pears are treasures to me.
It was my honor to be his friend and admirer.
I regret that I was unable to comfort him and you during his suffering days due to my own health issues.
I also regret being unable to attend his funeral, but offer my heartfelt condolences to you all.

Rest In Peace dear friend free from pain for all eternity. He will be sadly missed by us all.

Larry Fuchs
Wednesday October 31, 2018